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DIVORCE DIARIES: 'I'm making a pact with myself about my unhappy marriage.'

DIVORCE DIARIES: 'I can't stop stalking my ex-husband.'

'My husband cheated on me with my best friend. I now have to co-parent with her.'

I coach couples who are considering divorce. Here's the experiment I recommend they all try.

After a messy divorce, I'm now re-marrying my husband. Our friends think it's a mistake.

I'm reconciling with my ex-husband. I'm worried it's a mistake.

Why are all my friends pretending to be happily married?

'I want a divorce, but my husband is the breadwinner and says he'll take everything.'

How to Detox From Dating

Gabrielle explores when stepping away from dating can create space to reset old patterns, reconnect with yourself and become clearer about what you want from future relationships.

Five Ways to Revamp Your Sex Life

Gabrielle shares five practical, accessible ways to bring greater attention, communication, curiosity and connection back into your sex life.

'I'm Not Sexually Attracted to the Man I Love'

Gabrielle addresses the complicated divide between emotional love and sexual attraction—and what it can mean when intimacy and affection no longer align.

Learning to Trust Again

Gabrielle explores what it takes to rebuild trust after it has been damaged—and why healing requires honesty, consistency, emotional safety and time.

'How Do I Make My Ex Leave Me Alone?'

Gabrielle addresses unwanted contact from an ex-partner, the importance of clear boundaries and the practical steps someone can take to protect their space and move forward.

How to Stop Trying to Be Superwoman

An exploration of the pressure women face to manage everything, the personal cost of impossible expectations and why asking for support is a strength—not a failure.